Monday, October 27, 2008

AMERICA'S LAST ACCEPTABLE PREJUDICE

November 3, 2008

On this the eve before voting begins for the election in which I believe America will choose Barack Obama to be the first African-American President of the United States; I am both thrilled and troubled by the steps which have gotten us to this great state of progress. While some might question Senator Obama’s policies or inexperience, neither is my concern. Senator Obama, by his very nature, exudes all the qualities that a president should possess-leadership, intelligence, and charisma, to name a few. Still, I am bothered that in this day of celebration to what may signal the fulfillment of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the ultimate lack of necessity for programs such as Affirmative Action, there remain few “acceptable” prejudices.

On September 12, 1960, presidential candidate John F. Kennedy delivered a speech to the Greater Houston Ministerial Association of Protestant ecclesiastical leaders addressing the subject of religion in his hope to become the first President of the United States of America who also happened to be Catholic. Many Protestants at the time were worried about his ability to lead the nation independent of his religious convictions and affiliations.

In his speech he affirmed,

“No Catholic has ever been elected president; the real issues in this campaign have been obscured — perhaps deliberately, in some quarters less responsible than this. So it is apparently necessary for me to state once again not what kind of church I believe in — for that should be important only to me — but what kind of America I believe in.

“I believe in an America that is officially neither Catholic, Protestant nor Jewish; where no public official either requests or accepts instructions on public policy from the Pope, the National Council of Churches or any other ecclesiastical source; where no religious body seeks to impose its will directly or indirectly upon the general populace or the public acts of its officials; and where religious liberty is so indivisible that an act against one church is treated as an act against all.

“For while this year it may be a Catholic against whom the finger of suspicion is pointed, in other years it has been, and may someday be again, a Jew— or a Quaker or a Unitarian or a Baptist. It was Virginia's harassment of Baptist preachers, for example, that helped lead to Jefferson's statute of religious freedom. Today I may be the victim, but tomorrow it may be you — until the whole fabric of our harmonious society is ripped at a time of great national peril.

“Finally, I believe in an America where religious intolerance will someday end; where all men and all churches are treated as equal; where every man has the same right to attend or not attend the church of his choice; where there is no Catholic vote, no anti-Catholic vote, no bloc voting of any kind; and where Catholics, Protestants and Jews, at both the lay and pastoral level, will refrain from those attitudes of distain and division which have so often marred their works in the past, and promote instead the American ideal of brotherhood.

“That is the kind of America in which I believe.Yet nearly a half century after this speech, it seems that the religious concerns of yesteryear have yet to be quelled even as the younger Civil Rights Act of 1964 and its affiliated programs may have reached obsolescence as an African-American is elected President, or at the very least has garnered the Democratic nomination.

Before I illustrate further, I acknowledge being Caucasian, Republican and Mormon, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the preferred name of the Mormon faith.

As a Caucasian (white-as I prefer not to use “politically correct” vernacular when referring to myself) being raised in the Northwestern United States, I have enjoyed a life with few, if any, racial disadvantages or advantages. Just a year after graduating from high school, I spent two years working as a racial minority in the Dominican Republic, a third-world Afro-Dominican nation sharing its borders with Haiti. I am the uncle to an African-American niece, whom I love dearly.

As a Republican now residing in what may be considered the reddest of red states, I have witnessed little opposition locally to my personal political convictions. While the apparent national landscape seems to shift toward a democratic backdrop chiefly whipped up by a liberal leaning media, I have also witnessed a return to conservative values from the silent majority of Americans with whom I share political conviction. Nevertheless, citizens of all persuasions seem to share a collective hope for national economic recovery and social advancement.

As a Mormon, I studied at two of the finest universities in the land, both originating out of Christian values--Brigham Young University located in Provo, Utah and graduate studies at Harvard University , whose seal reads Ve-Ri-Tas or Latin for “truth”. It is a University named after Reverend John Harvard who in 1638 donated funds and books to the two year old institution for the purpose of training young ministers in the gospel.

Just as Harvard University has stirred away from its religious roots, I have witnessed a mass emigration toward the dark ages of religious intolerance in America only as it pertains to my faith. This small-mindedness aimed at Mormons is not seen among ecclesiastical entities as a whole, but has focused its aim toward one particular congregation known as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This, I contend, is one of society’s last acceptable prejudices.

Academy Award winning actor, Ben Affleck, a democratic activist proudly representing itself as the “party of tolerance”, called on national television “the Mormonism thing really suspect”. On 2007’s season finale of “Real Time with Bill Maher”, Affleck made the predication that despite a “suspect” religion, his Massachusetts neighbor then advancing in the polls, Mitt Romney, would be the nominee.

Could you imagine in this millennium publicly calling a Jewish candidate “suspect” based only on his or her religion? Or how about that Baptist “thing being really suspect”? Those statements aimed exclusively at one religion, as well as their purveyors, do not belong in a citizenry of tolerance and democracy.

To have thoughts to this end may be natural, but to verbalize them and so openly make them in a national forum within this country only demonstrates the public distain directed towards my faith. Other religious entities or races endured through comments of this type and while I certainly do not call Ben Affleck or any other broker of prejudice a “bigot”, I wonder when the day will come in which we can demonstrate acceptance to all faiths as President Kennedy called for decades ago.

I am not so naïve so as to think that Mormonism is the last of all prejudices. I do, however, believe it is one of the few, if not the only acceptable prejudices in America relating to race, creed, color or religion. In recent years, Muslims living in this country have been threatened, put down and continue to be feared. Fear is generally a byproduct of misunderstanding or ignorance. However, would it serve as acceptable to deride any religious sect based solely on ignorance? Americans may question it privately, but no educated or tolerant American would ever dare categorize on a national forum an entire religious body as “suspect”, whether Muslim or Jew, Catholic or Lutheran.

In America we made one’s faith the underlying issue in this 2008 presidential primary race. Smeared by opponents both Democrat and Republican, by national news figures and self-proclaimed Civil Rights activists, in addition to Hollywood actors advocating open-mindedness, the national candidate who shares my faith and whom I predict to be the Republican nominee for President 2012 (just as the runner-up has done for the last thirty years, sans George W. Bush) lost this race before it began solely based on his religion.

Mitt Romney, in his December 5, 2007 address to clarify his position on religion vis-à-vis the presidency declared,

"Freedom requires religion just as religion requires freedom. Freedom opens the windows of the soul so that man can discover his most profound beliefs and commune with God. Freedom and religion endure together, or perish alone.

"Given our grand tradition of religious tolerance and liberty, some wonder whether there are any questions regarding an aspiring candidate's religion that are appropriate. I believe there are. And I will answer them today.

"Almost 50 years ago another candidate from Massachusetts explained that he was an American running for President, not a Catholic running for President. Like him, I am an American running for President. I do not define my candidacy by my religion. A person should not be elected because of his faith nor should he be rejected because of his faith.

"Let me assure you that no authorities of my church, or of any other church for that matter, will ever exert influence on presidential decisions. Their authority is theirs, within the province of church affairs, and it ends where the affairs of the nation begin.

Two days after Romney’s speech on religion, Lawrence O’Donnell spoke out seeking to discredit Romney and claiming expertise on the Mormon faith. O’Donnell, a part-time actor and producer, turned MSNBC political analyst, currently cast as part of HBO’s series “Big Love”, depicting a modern-day polygamist not affiliated with the Mormon church, on December 7th’s McLaughlin Group, falsely accused Joseph Smith (a man whom I revere as a prophet of God just as Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob), to be a rapist and a criminal. Not only was O’Donnell not fired like his MSNBC counterpart Don Imus, for using the words “nappy-headed” describing young African-Americans, he was encouraged to speak again given additional forums on radio shows and interviews with regional newspapers through mid-December.

Had he called Mohammad a rapist due to his religious practices, not only would he have lost his job, but he would have likely been threatened with his life. Had he called Moses criminal, the outrage could have paralyzed an entire network.

Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee, a former Republican presidential hopeful running against Romney and an ordained Southern Baptist minister, posed the question in a December interview, "Don't Mormons believe that Jesus and the devil are brothers?"

Later Huckabee apologized for accusatory comments, but the damage was done.

While denying Huckabee’s claim, Romney responded on the “Today” show by saying, "I think attacking someone's religion is really going too far. It's just not the American way, and I think people will reject that."

Civil rights activist Al Sharpton, who led the charge to have Don Imus fired for making the aforementioned racially insensitive remarks, found limited scrutiny, but nothing more after telling his audience that Mormons don’t really believe in God.

During a debate on religion and politics at the New York Public Library with atheist author Christopher Hitchens, Sharpton stated, "As for the one Mormon running for office, those that really believe in God will defeat him anyway, so don't worry about that. That's a temporary situation."

Sharpton also stated, “What I do functionally is what Dr. King, Reverend Jackson and the [civil rights] movement are all about.” As a God-fearing Caucasian, Republican and Mormon, I don’t agree that his or the other comments about Mormonism to be in line with the civil rights movement or the communal progress made since its inception.

As it turns out, enough false and publicly prejudiced comments can make a difference in the polls and the way a nation sees a candidate or his religion.

Once the party front-runner to win the Republican nomination, and certainly the candidate I believe to be the most skilled to lead us out of this current economic crisis, unprincipled use of the first amendment right of free speech claimed him as a presidential casualty not based on his polices, political or business prowess, but because of his religion.

It is this discrimination, not racial, not socio-economic, but against the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints which I believe to be one of America’s Last Acceptable Prejudices.

With hope for a more equitable future,

James Clarke

13 comments:

keith said...

My name is Keith, and I am an active Mormon living in Sandy, Utah. I read your essay (I found it on Facebook), and I find it to be pretty ridiculous in several respects.

1. I find it fascinating that an individual who is a member of a Church that actively supports discrimination against gays and lesbians could complain the he, in fact, is a victim of prejudice. The only examples of this "prejudice" you cite in your essay are of various individuals speaking ill of your faith. Whatever happened to sticks and stones? Yet the Church of which you are a member seeks to withhold critical human rights from gays and lesbians. Aren't you being a bit hypocritical here? You're a victim because people speak ill of you, yet you ignore the blatant discrimination your (our) church endorses? Come on.

2. Can you imagine a scenario whereby a serious presidential candidate admitted that he worshipped Thor the Thunder God? Or Zeus? Or perhaps five or six different gods? Of course you cannot imagine such a scenario, because such a person would be laughed off the campaign. Why? Because his religious views are unusual, and deemed silly by the majority of interested parties. How is your Mitt Romney example any different than my Thor the Thunder god example? Most people in this country find Mormonism implausible. This is their right. It is also their right to say whatever they wish about Mormonism. This right is protected under the Bill of Rights. And you want them disciplined for it? For nothing more than calling the religion "suspect?" Your victim complex astounds me.

3. Joseph Smith was, in fact a rapist. At least by today's standards. He married and consummated marriages with several "underage" women and girls, the youngest (known) of these was just 14 years old. That means he was a statutory rapist, by today's standards. And statutory rape is a crime. So, if an individual refers to Joseph Smith a rapist and/or a criminal, that individual is technically correct, is he not? And you wish a person who dares to speak these truths to be disciplined? For speaking that which is true? Perhaps in Nazi Germany, or in Red China, but not in the United States of America. The truth is all the defense a man needs.

While its a bummer that many people don't like Mormons, or understand our doctrines, or appreciate those aspects of our religion that we hold dear, it does a great disservice to our faith when individuals such as yourself fall victim to the victim complex. Speaking one's personal opinions about a certain religion isn't "prejudice," especially if the speaker speaks the truth. Furthermore, crying wolf like you have done reduces the credibility of serious individuals who try to draw attention to serious cases of discrimination and prejudice. The more people who read nonsense like what you have written, the more people who quickly dismiss similar essays, regardless of their merit.

I feel that rather than complaining and crying injustice, people like you should simply grow a pair and pro-actively attempt to improve the image of the Church in our country. I'll tell you a great place to start...speaking out against the hateful persecution of gay and lesbian couples in their "heretical" attempt to simply marry the person they love.

Dan said...

Thank you Keith for validating the fact that there is indeed prejudice against the "Mormon" church. I clearly see that it is time for those who profess to belong to the Church need to stand stronger in their faith. It is obviously very unpopular (according to the world's standards) to prescribe to all of principles taught. The church as a whole is under extreme criticism, and I can imagine a lot of people won't be able to hack the ridiculous prejudice members of the church will inevitably have to face.

I'm sure this applies to you as well. I invite you to analyze your beliefs and truly decide whether you are Mormon or not.

keith said...

Dan - thank you for the invitation to analyze my beliefs. I would ask you a question in response though: What is it about my comments that prompted you to feel I should analyze my beliefs and determine if I truly am a Mormon or not?

Was it the fact that I don't feel discriminated against when someone calls my religion "suspect?" Was it the fact that I support freedom of speech, even when that speech is a criticism of what I hold dear?

Was it the fact that understand the history of our Church, and of the prophet Joseph Smith, and acknowledge that he was a mortal man, not oblivious to the various temptations and weaknesses that all of us are susceptible to? Is it the fact that I have not casually brushed aside the fact that Joseph said and did some fairly heinous things, in addition to the great and wonderful things he helped bring to pass? Is it the fact that I have digested and dealt with the fact that Joseph Smith was not exactly the flawless folk hero prophet we were taught about in primary?

Or is it the fact that I don't hate gay people?

Again, I appreciate your invitation for me to analyze my religious beliefs. Believe me, I am continually analyzing them. If I may be so bold, I would invite you to do the same. Ask yourself if you believe withholding basic human rights of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters and stomping on their dignity is something Christ would do, were he here walking among us. Ask yourself, would Christ cry prejudice, and bemoan persecution if his brothers and sisters had the audacity to question his teachings. Ask yourself, would Christ try to bury or ignore the documented history of his prophet of the restoration, or would he be open and honest about it, understanding that all are susceptible to temptation and human frailty, and that likewise, all are entitled to mercy and forgiveness. Isn't the goal to be as much like Christ as possible? Shouldn't we all be continually analyzing our personal religious state of being, searching for ways to improve, and to be more Christ-like?

You indicated that in these tough times, it has clearly become "time for those to profess to belong to the Church to stand stronger in their faith." I concur wholeheartedly. Time for us all to stand stronger in our faith IN CHRIST, and become more like him in every way possible. I don't see how wailing about persecution and passing laws to withhold inalienable rights from our gay brothers and sisters is "standing stronger in the faith." To me, its turning and about-face, and ignoring our core faith in Christ.

People not liking you, or people thinking your religious philosophy is suspect...this is not "prejudice." Prejudice would be if people attempted to deny you your legal rights because of your religious affiliation. This is not happening to you. So Don Imus got his hands slapped for making a racially insensitive remark and Ben Affleck didn't. So what? If people speaking ill of your religion is the worst problem you have, then you're living a charmed life.

Vince said...

It is important to understand that this issue for the Church has always been about the sacred and divine institution of marriage — a union between a man and a woman.

Allegations of bigotry or persecution made against the Church were and are simply wrong. The Church’s opposition to same-sex marriage neither constitutes nor condones any kind of hostility toward gays and lesbians. Even more, the Church does not object to rights for same-sex couples regarding hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment rights, or probate rights, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of churches.

Some, however, have mistakenly asserted that churches should not ever be involved in politics when moral issues are involved. In fact, churches and religious organizations are well within their constitutional rights to speak out and be engaged in the many moral and ethical problems facing society. While the Church does not endorse candidates or platforms, it does reserve the right to speak out on important issues.

Vince said...

"Ask yourself if you believe withholding basic human rights of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters and stomping on their dignity is something Christ would do, were he here walking among us." I believe you are way off base here. There are no Human Rights being with Held here. There is no Stomping on anyones dignity. Marriage is sacred it is God given and should be between a Man and a Woman.

But since you brought up what would Christ do, I believe He would fight against anything that defiled God's laws and commandments. Proof is in His driving the money changers out of the Temple. (I submit that the against prop 8 mind set would even twist what He did to claim that Christ denied the changers human rights to sell and make money.)
Christ was not an example of hate when He drove the Changers from the Temple(sacred and Holy). And the Church and those that voted for Prop 8 are not withholding 'critical' human rights from anyone, nor promoting Hate or bigotry. I believe it is keeping Marriage Sacred and Holy and protecting the rights of all that want Marriage and Family to remain Sacred and Holy.

Evan E. Smith said...

It's ironic that on your page "America's Last Acceptable Prejudice", you link to Yes on 8...

I agree that Mormoms are discriminated against.

However, it makes me sadly shake my head though when one oppressed group turns around and then oppesses another. Hello LDS $22 Million Cali Yes on Prop 8! WTF?

Your cry for equality will never be met until you treat others with equality. It is a two-way street.

Justin said...

Mormonism is "America's Last Acceptable Prejudice"? That's a laugh. Try Atheism.

You want to talk about religious intolerance? The most-recent Religious Landscape Survey by the Pew Forum found that 4.0% of Americans identify themselves as Atheist (1.6%) or Agnostic (2.4%). That's more than twice the number of self-identified Mormons (1.7%). Quick...how many Atheists or Agnostics can you name at any level of government?

Mormons have been elected governors of several states. Mormons have served in cabinet-level positions going back at least as far as FDR's first term. Mormons serve in the House of Representatives, and as you mentioned, several Mormons not only currently serve openly in the Senate, but the majority party is currently led by a Mormon. Where is the political repression?

Only one member of Congress, Pete Stark of California, currently admits to having no belief in a god. He is the first known member of Congress in the history of this country to ever openly admit to that lack of belief.

When Mitt Romney was getting nowhere among the Republican Party Loyalists back in the presidential primaries, Mormons in the Utah media trotted out the statistic that 17% of Americans would not vote for an otherwise well-qualified candidate who happened to be a Mormon. This same survey, conducted by the Gallup organization in December 2007, also found that 48% of Americans would not vote for a well-qualified Atheist. Atheists finished at the bottom of the list, behind Mormons, women, and Muslims.

48% of Americans would not vote for an otherwise qualified presidential candidate who does not believe in a god. Yet, Mormonism is "America's Last Acceptable Prejudice"???

As you mentioned, Mitt Romney said "Freedom requires religion just as religion requires freedom... Freedom and religion endure together, or perish alone."

When I heard Mitt deliver that speech, as a non-religious person, I saw no place for myself in his vision of this country, despite the fact that there are more people like me than there are people who believe his doctrines. Apparently, we don't count. To make it worse, not only are we not free Americans, we're not on his friends' list:

"Any believer in religious freedom, any person who has knelt in prayer to the Almighty, has a friend and ally in me."

You hint that you are a Mormon living in Utah. If so, ask yourself how far a self-described Atheist or Agnostic would get in a statewide election or a Republican Party convention with a predominately LDS electorate. Tell me that Mormons in Utah don't judge a candidate based on his or her religion and then show me a list of non-Mormon office holders in Utah's government. Is it proportional to the size of the non-Mormon population in Utah?

I realize that you're upset because the Republicans lost big in this year's election, and that your LDS dream candidate was rejected harshly by your own party. That's not America's fault. That's the Republican Party's fault.

If Mormons are concerned about intolerance, I would suggest you get your own house in order first. If you want non-Mormons to vote for candidates who are members of the LDS faith, try electing a few qualified non-Mormon candidates in Utah. If you want other people to recognize your rights, don't pass legislation or campaign actively to deny the rights of others. If the political party that you have been in bed with for more than 30 years refuses to admit you as full members, look around for the party that does judge you soley on your religion.

Fighting for One said...

I find it interesting as a former member of the LDS faith, and openly gay man living in Utah that so much hate has come from one issue. I agree wholeheartedly that gay and lesbian couples deserve the same rights and privileges that heterosexual couples enjoy in this country (i.e. insurance, co-habitation, etc.). But, this whitepaper has nothing to do with this issue. In fact, it is pointing out the great disparities that exist in our social acceptances within the American society.

All too often we hear of how we as a people deserve to stand together and work as one. Yet again, religion plays a part in the qualifications of an individual and their ability to lead. If sexuality or race were to enter the debate, the other side would be calling foul and apologies would be doled out. Not in this case.

It is of my opinion, and please note I have talked with James on many occasions, that we as a people deserve to put all of our prejudices aside and realize that our country is built on different views, opinions and beliefs. That is what makes us great! Being tolerant and open to others’ ideas and beliefs creates diversity and strength in such a dynamic society.

Sure the Mormons dished out millions in support to California’s Proposition 8. Do I agree with the practices used to defeat the bill? No, but that doesn’t mean I can’t see their point. On the other hand, I have experienced the church in a loving, open and honest way. Their doctrine is clear, no sexual relations outside of the realms of marriage. Marriage is constituted, in their belief, as a union between husband and wife. This is their belief. Why do I want to change their belief, because I don’t get my way? That is not how I work.

If I want it to be different, then I make it the way I want it. Do rights deserve to be fought for? Absolutely, and churches and their members, including the LDS one, feel the same. For those who create prejudices otherwise, they are not supported by the masses. I know this to be true of James as well. Yes, he has his beliefs, and wholeheartedly supports his religious background, but most importantly is truly a Christ like man, open to all.

Let us take this white paper and learn. If you see that the prejudice is not just the one James has pointed out, then do something different. Don’t just sit on a comment board and complain, get out in the community, make your own blogs. Change this world into the one you want to see. Let go of the lines and differences we create amongst ourselves and watch this country prosper.

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SageFather said...

Certainly one of the worst examples of prejudice is that against gays and lesbians, which your bigoted church supports. In fact, your church just spent millions upon millions of dollars to squash the rights of homosexuals. How can you even suggest that YOU are a target of prejudice that even compares to this?

LG said...

Very funny.

Let me say first that I am an ex-Mormon. I believe that after looking in the mirror of what I was like as a Mormon, the Church deserves the criticism it gets. I was just as pig-headed, self-righteous, and pious as you. The Church really isn't that tolerant of other faiths, and though you might not come out and say it, you are just as prejudiced against non-Mormons as ex-Mormons and anti-Mormons are against Mormons. Why? You don't think any of us are going to heaven. I say that because if you think a "lower kingdom" would be true heaven, you're sorely mistaken (even though it would be for me, your God is the same intolerant "capriciously malevolent bully" Dr. Richard Dawkins speaks of...and that's a very good description of both you and your God).

I'm tired of you people making ME a target because I chose to disaffiliate with your religion. I'm tired of your constant attacks on us, calling us apostates, Sons of Perdition, etc. and your unwillingness to let us live our lives without the church. You need to accept the fact that there are those of us who are much happier outside of your ridiculous religious institution.

You have no right to meddle about in state affairs, as America is founded on strong separation of church and state, and it's a huge misconception that America was founded on Christian principles when it most certainly was founded as a secular nation. Most of the early presidents, founding fathers, etc. were actually Deists, not Christians, and the words "God" and "Creator" are used very generically in the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution (e.g. they don't refer to one specific religion's God).

One other point to note, marriage for the LDS Church hasn't always been about ONE man and ONE women. That was changed once the law was changed to outlaw polygamy. Changing doctrine when it's convenient for them. How nice!

Oh, you want to see REAL prejudice? Try the prejudice against atheists in this nation. That's real, true prejudice. In seven states atheists cannot hold public office. If that's not prejudice I don't know what is!

Get off your high horse and leave me alone (e.g. quit trying to convert me back) and maybe I'll ease up on you, until then, you Mormons will always take a lot of heat from me

Unknown said...

Keith - This topic makes me extremely angry, so without getting into any debates here and trying not to bring in politics I want to say something. I came to this blog very angry that some of my friends had joined this man's group on facebook and I wanted to bash everything he had to say. I am a former mormon and have little respect for your beliefs, due to the fact that I have found them ridiculous. However I want you to know that today you have reminded me that there are rational, true believing mormons out there. And today you have diffused my anger and made me think twice about lumping all mormons together in one big pile! Thanks.

Unknown said...

James,

I appreciate your argument. However, bringing to light the skeptical or even prejudiced view that some in the US hold towards Mormonism is not terribly unique when done by a Mormon. Let us cut paste the feel-good vibes of "tolerance" and "open-mindedness" for a moment and deal with more hard-hitting questions.

What causes rational and intelligent people to hold prejudiced views in the first place? Is it ever appropriate to hold prejudices? Are all negative stereotypes wrong to hold? Do they always convey poor information? Should we try to do away with stereotyping altogether and is that even possible?

I am not going to say what the answers to those questions are. I hope that posing them does not hint at what I think an answer should be. I am simply saying that addressing questions such as those would be far more productive than just saying, "We Mormons are judged negatively and it shouldn't be that way."

The reason it would help to address those questions is because then it forces all of us - you, me, Democrat, Republican, Mormon, Catholic, gay, straight, etc. - to evaluate our own judgments first and to think about why we make them. Let's face it, nearly all Americans will be suspicious of a belief system or a lifestyle that is not legitimized by numbers. In other words, if you are one of too few people who practice something that is well out of the mainstream, people will hold prejudices. Perhaps Americans will become more tolerant of Mormons if Mormons can grow in sufficient numbers that they are perceived as a permanent feature on the American religious landscape. They are getting close but certainly not yet in the same league as Protestantism, Catholicism, or the Jewish religion. Tolerance tends to increase in direct proportion with familiarity. If we had a candidate for President who was a member of a religious society that only had 10,000 members worldwide, a society that did not make public some of its most important practices and beliefs, and that believed some very strange things (when judged by the oh-so-sensible measuring stick of modern Christianity), virtually ALL of us would be very skeptical of that candidate, regardless of his other "presidential" qualities.

So pleading for tolerance of your own kind is nothing extraordinary. Yes, perhaps it needs to be done but Mormons are very efficient at claiming an underprivileged and underserved status. I think we inherited it from our ancestors. But there is something crucial missing in such pleading...and Mormons seem abnormally oblivious to it.

What will continue to make our country a haven for individual liberty, rights, and peace among widely diverse people is not the plea for tolerance for your own kind. It is the plea for tolerance of people who are distinct from you. Mormons pleading for acceptance of Mormons, gay people pleading for acceptance of gay people, blacks pleading for acceptance of blacks, etc. - these are necessary but also expected. What will really show your mettle and commitment to American ideals is how well you plead for tolerance of those UNLIKE you. Mormons pleading for acceptance of gays? Whites pleading for acceptance of blacks? Atheists pleading for acceptance of evangelists (as hard as that is)? Not only does that show more profound understanding of what liberty really is, it shows that you are committed to it.